Written by Aremuorin
I found a Covert Narcissism group online and read till I nearly bled tears. Evil has no colour for real ..’ – Aremuorin
Check this out:
For those who married their narc, how did the wedding day go?
No ceremony. No friends.
We signed the marriage license in his kitchen. And then went to dinner, and he expected me to pay for it.
As I paid the tab, I suddenly felt sick to my stomach.
The next day he wanted to “blend our bank accounts,” and he put me on a budget with my own money.
And he spent all he wanted on himself. — (And expected me to pay for everything.)
I paid all the bills after that. — (Well, he went to the grocery store some. But that was pretty much it.)
I worked two full time jobs while he stayed home. — (He worked one day a week while exwife #1 paid him $6,000/month in alimony …
… which he had to be just pocketing since I paid for most everything.)
I’m exwife #4.
Yep. I’m an idiot.
You’d think I was some ugly dog who was desperate for love.
I was homecoming queen and Miss Northern Colorado. — 3 college degrees and 2 graduate degrees. And he was a short, balding, pathetic little man who threw violent tantrums like a 2-year old.
And I continued to love and devot my life to him for another 2 1/2 years.
Wtf was I doing? !!! – Cindy Paschal Fiklin
This left me cold ..’ Cindy, you are far from ugly, but he saw you coming. You are brave to share your story publicly. I hope you are healing. Thank God for your testimony. It will save legions from a repeat hopefully. Those were major red flags.
Produced by Aremuorin