My Prayer For You — Stay In The Arms Of Those Who Truly Love You

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My prayer is you stay in the arms of those who truly care and love — and not a bunch of narcs sucking the life out of you to build their own empires, in the name of false help, playing on your vulnerability.

— Aremuorin

I said what I said.

Pass it on. Don’t wait. Someone needs this today.

They Come With A Smile

Pay attention.

Not everyone who shows up in your life with warmth, words, and a listening ear is there for you.

Some are there for what they can extract from you.

They study your wounds. They learn your language. They position themselves as the answer and before you know it, you are pouring into a vessel that was never yours to fill.

That is not love. That is strategy dressed as compassion.

Stay wary of the motives behind the facade especially in spaces where insecurity and narcissism find fertile ground.

False Help Is Still Harm

Let us be clear.

False help is abuse. Passive, calculated, dressed in kindness — but abuse nonetheless.

When someone uses your vulnerability as a ladder to climb, your pain as content, your healing as their platform — that is exploitation. Full stop.

💡 Empires are not built on love. They are built on leverage. And if you are the leverage — you are not the beneficiary. You are the resource.

No matter how many times they say “I’m just trying to help” — watch what they build with what they take from you.

Narcs Don’t Announce Themselves

This is the part nobody tells you.

Narcissists do not come in darkness. They come in light. They come with energy, with enthusiasm, with an attentiveness that makes you feel finally seen.

That is the trap.

Because a person who has found their footing is no longer useful to them. So they keep you in need. They keep you doubting. They keep you dependent.

No matter how kind and selfless you are to them, some folks are ruthless, evil-soulless-sociopaths, with no remorse. Still, I hold my ground. I choose love.

Block the frequency. Protect your peace. Leave no room.

You Are Not A Door Mat

Love is not a door mat.

Just because someone has been present does not mean they have been safe. Just because you feel indebted does not mean the debt is real.

You are allowed to walk away from the empire they built on your exhaustion.

You are allowed to choose arms that hold you without agenda.

You are allowed to heal — fully, freely — without someone monetising your recovery.

🚫 “You are not a door mat. Love is friendship not sociopathy.” — Aremuorin

What Real Love Looks Like

Real love does not need your crisis to feel relevant.

It does not disappear when you are well. It does not keep score. It does not shrink you to sustain itself.

Real love is steady. It shows up not because it needs something from you. but because you matter. Without condition. Without transaction.

When you find that hold it. Honour it. Do not trade it for the performance of care.

“When you realise how loud God claps for you, you stop noticing those who don’t – ThisQueenAba (Instagram)”.

✦ The Prayer ✦

May you find your way to the arms that are safe.
May you be held by those whose love does not cost you yourself. May every empire built on your vulnerability crumble. And may what remains be only what was always true that you are enough. Fully. Without condition.

🙏🏿 God First. Always. #MercyfulGrace

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