LGBTQIA Monarchs In #Africa ..’ – #In14Ways #Lgbtqia #MercyfulGrace

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fb_img_1589821401477290442256444761386.jpgI am a Tom Girl, Nigerian origin; of the Yoruba tribe and Kingdom. Born this way, in fact my sister 7 years my junior, was a natural Tom Boy; as a child.

Imagine my horror after years of harrasment, bullying & dehumanisation for my genetic disposition as a blackman, to find out 700 years ago, my ancestors, endorsed anďrogyny & same sex relations in Africa🧐. See Osumare (3).

(The irony. How sad, when Osumare, means ‘Rainbow’ in ‘Yoruba’, where it’s from. And, ‘Osumare’, a deity (like Sango, Obatala, Yemoja, and etc) who balances feminine and masculine energy, is also an androgynous god whose signature is the rainbow. The same signature of the lgbtqia+ in the west. Yet, some of my people, still dismiss, and truely perish; for lack of knowlege).

No thanks, to white jesus and it’s phonie bolonie, idealogy to suppress, oppress and control my people, with a form of christianity, that will white wash it’s indegenious ways, customs and practices for power and control. GTFOH. The Arabs, are no saints either and just as hypocritical.

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Explain. The lift does not go up in this narrative anymore? This is deep like a rabbit hole. Do I get the sense that this was by design to subjugate Africans with mental slavery by distorting history and historical facts with a white washed religion to enventually enslave Africans, in perpetuity? Thats not fair🤦🏿‍♂️👈🏿. More @ https://Aremuorin.me

I never felt, or was made to feel different, in Africa, until my encounter with homophobia in Europe later on in life. Coloniliasm and slavery did a no on us Africans, just as much as the white Jesus they gave us. My research led me – here.

To break it down: LGBTQIA+ 

L – LESBIANS, G – GAY, B – BISEXUALS, T – TRANSGENDERED, Q – QUEER / QUESTIONING, I – INTERSECTIONS, A+ – ALLIES (& Supporters) ..’ 

Examples include:

  • One notably ‘‘explicit” Bushmen painting, which depicts African men engaging in same-sex sexual activity
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  • In the late 1640s, a Dutch military attaché documented Nzinga, a warrior woman in the Ndongo kingdom of the Mbundu, who ruled as ‘‘king” rather than ‘‘queen”, dressed as a man and surrounded herself with a harem of young men who dressed as women and who were her ‘‘wives”.
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  • Eighteenth century anthropologist, Father J-B. Labat, documented the Ganga-Ya-Chibanda, presiding priest of the Giagues, a group within the Congo kingdom, who routinely cross-dressed and was referred to as ‘‘grandmother”.
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  • In traditional, monarchical Zande culture, anthropological records described homosexuality as ‘‘indigenous”. The Azande of the Northern Congo ‘‘routinely married” younger men who functioned as temporary wives – a practise that was institutionalised to such an extent that warriors would pay ‘‘brideprice” to the young man”s parents.
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  • Amongst Bantu-speaking Pouhain farmers (Bene, Bulu, Fang, Jaunde, Mokuk, Mwele, Ntum and Pangwe) in present-day Gabon and Cameroon, homosexual intercourse was known as bian nkû”ma– a medicine for wealth which was transmitted through sexual activity between men.
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  • Similarly in Uganda, amongst the Nilotico Lango, men who assumed ‘‘alternative gender status” were known as mukodo dako. They were treated as women and were permitted to marry other men.

 

  •  In the former Kingdom o Dahomey, women could be soldiers (above) and older women would sometimes marry younger women, according to anthropologist Melville Herkovits. The Baganda. King Mwanga II, the Baganda monarch, was widely reported to have engaged in sexual relations with his male subjects.

  • Jesuit working in Southern Africa in 1606 described finding ‘‘Chibadi, which are Men attired like Women, and behave themselves womanly, ashamed to be called men”.
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  • In the early 17th century in present-day Angola, Portuguese priests Gaspar Azevereduc and Antonius Sequerius encountered men who spoke, sat and dressed like women, and who entered into marriage with men. Such marriages were ‘‘honored and even prized”.
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  • In the Iteso communities, based in northwest Kenya and Uganda, same-sex relations existed amongst men who behaved as and were socially accepted as women.
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  • Same-sex practises were also recorded among the Banyoro and the Langi.
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  • In pre-colonial Benin, homosexuality was seen as a phase that boys passed through and grew out of.
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  • There were practises of female-female marriages amongst the Nandi and …
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  • Kisii of Kenya, as well as the
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  • the Igbo of Nigeria,
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  • the Nuer of Sudan and
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  • the Kuria of Tanzania.
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  • Among Cape Bantu, lesbianism was ascribed to women who were in the process of becoming chief diviners, known as isanuses.

The next time you harrass or gaslight any lgbqia+ person with the bible, according to white jesus, remember this post. Because, unless you are stoning all the females in your familiy who are not virgins; on their wedding nights, as the bible commands, according to white jesus, you are a flaming hypocrite. I do not suppose you have a monopoly on grace now. Do you? Realtalk ..’✍🏿

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Disclaimer:

Everybody wants to be loved. Even lgbtqia+. folks. No misogyny, racism, violence or homophobia on my posts. Don’t ask for what you can’t give ..’ It’s an instant block ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏿

To the abusers –  I made no norms. I shared history. Take it to the alter and the ancestors. Not me. Truth hurts. The lie is worse.

Evil has no color and evil is smart. This post is to raise awareness and troubleshoot solutions. Not anarchy and mischief. Live and let live. I do not care what your orientation, colour, class, or creed is. Respect is a two way street.

For real thou. If you are going to be self righteous, holy and pious, why lose the argument by throwing childish tantrums when facts say otherwise?

Then, run off like a cry baby. Lets have a grown up conversation like adults.

Maybe if some of our inept African leaders were not consumed with looting the treasury with greed we might have some funds left to build schools and institutions of higher learning, for real history; unlike mental slavery from bad religion.

Very mature indeed ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏿

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Love Of #Money – #In14Ways #Aremuorin #Love #MercyfulGrace

You will think twice before you eat Macdonalds again; if you ever do, after watching this🧐😱😰👇🏿.

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Don’t forget black #allies are #magic❤👈🏿 #In14Ways #Love #Aremuorin

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Structured institutional racism explained. When will it stop?

All who think #blm is hijacked are misguided. Black communities have intersections, globally; overtly or covertly.

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Wakeup! If African communites could solely end racism and oppression, they would have, by now. Inept, corrupt leaders, and ignorance, stalled that.

Hence, why African communities, need allies co-operatively, in the #diaspora ..’ – #In14Ways

#Aremuorin #ICantBreathe #Ego #GeorgeCaceres #MercyfulGrace  

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The Selfie That Went Viral #Aremuorin #LindaIkeji #MercyfulGrace #ICantBreathe

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Thank you #LindaIkeji❤👈🏿.

An innocent, red carpet, selfie moment. Then, selfie went viral. I am here ..’ – Aremuorin ✍🏿🙏🏿

God instructed me to do it. I felt his presence after the ignorant fake xtains attacked me verbally at that award ceremony in London for my hair.

I was booked to perform there and someone blocked all my awards from that event. I laugh at the narcissism now. Never needed it.

It was an aftermath selfie I posted on my instagram @Aremuorin (See new IG page @IAmAremuorin). The only viral pic from the bookers event.

The event organiser, allegedly, told photographers not to take my pic on the red carpet. I was avoided like a plague on that red carpet by them.

But see how God shut them up.

Was offerred no stipends and sang on an empty stomach watching everyone after; eat, their main course, and desserts, plus drinks, while I starved my eyes out, dehydratingly.

Worst night ever booked as an artiste! God did me good ooo with justice in the end. Who said there is no God! Please, do it again; dear God. Fight for me. Shalom !!!

My red carpet selfie went viral. I will never forget. God can not be mocked.
Touch not my annointed.

Aremuorin For God❤👈🏿

Read the viral post by Linda here

#Aremuorin #blm
#MercyfulGrace
#GodsProperty

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Cognitive Dissonance Vs #Toxic #Masculinity: #Lgbtqia+ #Aremuorin #LHHH #MercyfulGrace

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Love And Hippop did a great job bringing this to light. Utter respect to the producers and cast. God bless you. Miles & Milan’s relationship journey was a FIRST for “Love & Hip Hop”. #ProudTogether #LHHH

Broadly speaking, from experience. This is my take. I say this to those in the closet proverbially. So you are street, flying the hipop flag, which is about realness, but you are gay/bi, in the closet. Explain that part of the bull sh*t I missed. All that tough exterior, but broken, inside. Who is the butt of the joke? This is indicative of our black communities. It is not right. Bucking!!!I feel for you if this is who you are. Give it to God. Lives are destroyed and broken behind this fassad. It is an insidious unhealthy contradiction. Especially, if you are a homophobic, downlow, black man. I love my #lgbtqia+ life. Read a book. Educate your mind. Get it out of mental slavery and religious dogma according to white jesus. Free your soul. Live. There are many gangstars caught up in this prison. In their mind, they believe; nobody knows. So sad. It is time. Love is love. Everybody knows.Miles & Milan’s relationship journey was a FIRST for “Love & Hip Hop”. #ProudTogether #LHH. Watch their storyline here. Cognitive Dissonance Vs Toxic Masculinity:

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Scattered applause🤣🤷🏿‍♂️ after a performance. Is that good or bad? #Aremuorin #LiveMusic #OblivionEp

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Found this songwriting workshop footage, I attended, a decade ago; performing my first penned, song How Is Life“. 

The scattered applause at the end had me ambivalent and insecure about my singing for years ..’

Watch “Follow Your Dreams: “How Is LIfe” Unplugged”.


An uplugged (stripped) version. Wao! Early morning singing, no warm ups.

So, I cruised through the song, rather than letting rip of my vocal cords. I did that regrettably, once before, due to poor music inductrination and racial peer pressure.

It cost me a lucrative major record deal among other things like racial trauma and ptsd. So, no! Not again. Beyond the pain, and making lemonade out of my lemons, I have performed this song, numerous time’s live at Ronnie Scotts.

It’s a cathartic favourite to play at jam sessions, with the house band, when asked to perform my self-penned songs. I’ve written hundreds of holistic  cathartic songs for my music therapy journey to overcome narcolepsy & depression. The remixes are just as cool.

Been always iffy about the acoustic version🧐. I nearly deleted it several times. It was one of the rare moments I observed on film, I was a Tom Girl and unique. I hated it for years till I embraced my individuality (uniqueness). The very african consciousness (Osumare) I was demonised for .

Everyone should. This opened my eye into the world of toxic masculinity in some men. Particularly, in some black men and why they are the way they are. Escuse the digression🧘🏿‍♂️. Scattered applause🤣🤷🏿‍♂️ after a performance. Is that good or bad? What do you think? Leave me your thoughts❤👈🏿 ..’ ✍🏿🙏🏿

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BLM. Protest Matters❤👆🏿🙏🏿 #Aremuorin #ICantBreath #BlackLivesMatter

👉🏾Within 10 days of sustained protests: Minneapolis bans use of choke holds. 👉🏾 George Floyd’s murderer was originally charged with 3rd degree murder. He is now being charged with 2nd degree murder. 👉🏾The other three officers who stood on scene and did NOTHING to help Floyd are being charged with aiding and abetting 2nd degree murder. 👉🏾Breonna Taylor’s case has been reopened. 👉🏾Louisville, KY’s mayor is ordering an outside review of the entire city police department. 👉🏾Dallas adopts a “duty to intervene” rule that requires officers to stop other cops who are engaging in inappropriate use of force. 👉🏾New Jersey’s attorney general said the state will update its use-of-force guidelines for the first time in two decades. 👉🏾In Maryland, a bipartisan work group of state lawmakers announced a police reform work group. 👉🏾A seminar scheduled in December for KC police that trains cops to kill without hestitation was cancelled. 👉🏾Los Angeles City Council introduces motion to reduce LAPD’s $1.8 billion operating budget. 👉🏾MBTA in Boston agrees to stop using public buses to transport police officers to protests. 👉🏾Police brutality captured on cameras leads to near-immediate suspensions and firings of officers in several cities (i.e., Buffalo, Ft. Lauderdale). 👉🏾Monuments celebrating confederates are removed in cities in Virginia, Alabama, and other states. 👉🏾James Miller resigned from his role in the Defense Asvisory Board at the Pentagon in response to the Secretary of Defense’s support of LEOs clearing out White House protestors with tear gas so Trump could take a publicity photo. 👉🏾Defense Secretary Mark Esper said he will oppose Trump’s threats to deploy federal troops to stop protestors across the US. 👉🏾Street in front of the White House is renamed “Black Lives Matter Plaza.” Military forces begin to withdraw from D.C. Then, there’s all the other stuff that’s hard to measure: 💓The really difficult public and private conversations that are happening about race and privilege. 💓The realisations some white people are coming to about racism and the role of policing in this country. 💓The self-reflection. 💓The internal battles exploding within organisations over issues that have been simmering or ignored for a long time. Some organisations will end as a result, others will be forever changed or replaced with something stronger and fairer. Globally: 🌎 Protests against racial inequality sparked by the police killing of George Floyd are taking place all over the world. 🌎 Rallies and memorials have been held in cities across Europe, as well as in Mexico, Canada, Brazil, Australia, and New Zealand. 🌎 As the US contends with its second week of protests, issues of racism, police brutality, and oppression have been brought to light across the globe. 🌎 People all over the world understand that their own fights for human rights, for equality and fairness, will become so much more difficult to win if Americans are going to lose America as the place where ‘I have a dream’ is a real and universal political program,” Wolfgang Ischinger, a former German ambassador to the US, told the New Yorker. 🌎 In France, protesters marched holding signs that said “I can’t breathe” to signify both the words of Floyd, and the last words of Adama Traoré, a 24-year-old black man who was subdued by police officers and gasped the sentence before he died outside Paris in 2016. 🌎 Cities across Europe have come together after the death of George Floyd: ✊🏽 In Amsterdam, an estimated 10,000 people filled the Dam square on Monday, holding signs and shouting popular chants like “Black lives matter,” and “No justice, no peace.” ✊🏽 In Germany, people gathered in multiple locations throughout Berlin to demand justice for Floyd and fight against police brutality. ✊🏾 A mural dedicated to Floyd was also spray-painted on a stretch of wall in Berlin that once divided the German capital during the Cold War. ✊🏿 In Ireland, protesters held a peaceful demonstration outside of Belfast City Hall, and others gathered outside of the US embassy in Dublin. ✊🏿In Italy, protesters gathered and marched with signs that said “Stop killing black people,” “Say his name,” and “We will not be silent.” ✊🏾 In Spain, people gathered to march and hold up signs throughout Barcelona and Madrid. ✊🏾 In Athens, Greece, protesters took to the streets to collectively hold up a sign that read “I can’t breathe.” ✊🏾 In Brussels, protesters were seen sitting in a peaceful demonstration in front of an opera house in the center of the city. ✊🏾In Denmark, protesters were heard chanting “No justice, no peace!” throughout the streets of Copenhagen, while others gathered outside the US embassy. ✊🏾 In Canada, protesters were also grieving for Regis Korchinski-Paquet, a 29-year-old black woman who died on Wednesday after falling from her balcony during a police investigation at her building. ✊🏾 And in New Zealand, roughly 2,000 people marched to the US embassy in Auckland, chanting and carrying signs demanding justice. 💐 Memorials have been built for Floyd around the world, too. In Mexico City, portraits of him were hung outside the US embassy with roses, candles, and signs. 💐 In Poland, candles and flowers were laid out next to photos of Floyd outside the US consulate. 💐 And in Syria, two artists created a mural depicting Floyd in the northwestern town of Binnish, “on a wall destroyed by military planes.” Before the assassination of George Floyd some of you were able to say whatever the hell you wanted and the world didn’t say anything to you… THERE HAS BEEN A SHIFT, AN AWAKENING…MANY OF YOU ARE BEING EXPOSED FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE. #readthatagain Don’t wake up tomorrow on the wrong side of this issue. It’s not to late to SAY, “maybe I need to look at this from a different perspective. Maybe I don’t know what it’s like to be Black in America/U.K Maybe, just maybe, “I have been taught wrong.” There is still so much work to be done. It’s been a really dark, raw time. This could still end badly. But all we can do is keep doing the work. Keep protesting. WE ARE NOT TRYING TO START A RACE WAR; WE ARE PROTESTING TO END IT, PEACEFULLY. How beautiful is that? ALL LIVES CANNOT MATTER UNTIL YOU INCLUDE BLACK LIVES. YOU CANNOT SAY ‘ALL LIVES MATTER’ WHEN YOU DO NOTHING TO STOP SYSTEMIC RACISM & POLICE BRUTALITY. YOU CANNOT SAY ‘ALL LIVES MATTER’ WHEN BLACK PEOPLE ARE DYING AND ALL YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT IS THE LOOTING. YOU CANNOT SAY ‘ALL LIVES MATTER’ WHEN YOU ALLOW CHILDREN TO BE CAGED, VETERANS TO GO HOMELESS, AND POOR FAMILIES TO GO HUNGRY & LOSE THEIR HEALTH INSURANCE. DO ALL LIVES MATTER? YES. BUT RIGHT NOW, ONLY BLACK LIVES ARE BEING TARGETED, JAILED, AND KILLED EN MASSE- SO THAT’S WHO WE’RE FOCUSING ON. 🖤🖤🖤BLACK LIVES MATTER🖤🖤🖤 IF YOU CAN’T SEE THIS, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. Spread the word, spread the niceness 💜❤️🖤 Produced by Aremuorin #Aremuorin #BlackLivesMatter If you have been blessed by this post; or blog, feel free to ‘share it’, ‘bookmark it’, and ‘like it’, to show your support, or make a donation here. 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This my dear friends is what we call #Whiteprivilege ..’ 👈🏿✍🏿🙏🏿 – #In14Ways #BlackLivesMatter #Aremuorin

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Yes be like Aiden Kelly❤


This is true whitesupremacy to me. The Blackwall street is still fresh and ringing out loud in 2020.

Be like Aiden❤💕💕✍🏿👈🏿


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Sitting In Limbo: #BBC 1 – A #Scandalous #Windrush #Drama ..’ #In14Ways #Aremuorin

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A TV drama about the windrush scandal, starring Patrick Robinson, is on on Monday 8th June on BBC 1, at 8.30pm.It’s called Sitting in Limbo.

It’s about a man who went to apply for a passport to visit his mother in Jamaica, then it all went wrong after living in the UK for 50 years. *Please spread the word as the BBC are not promoting it. Probably too scared to inflame current events* thanks. #MercyfulGrace #Aremuorin #Staywoke #BlackLivesMatter

Watch the trailer here

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EXTREME DOCILITY IS UNACCEPTABLE, DO SOMETHING !!! #Aremuorin #Speakout #MercyfulGrace


In February this year, a colleague ordered for an iPhone as a valentine gift to his wife. On arrival, it was seized by customs and he was asked to pay import duty on the item. He had to pay to clear the item so as to present it as planned.

Unknown to many Nigerians, import duty is not supposed to be paid on items meant for personal use. Import duty is usually paid only on goods that are meant to be resold or in large quantity. For example, you can’t order for 20 phones or shoes and convince anyone that they are for personal use.


Yesterday, a federal judge in Abuja ruled that it was unlawful for customs to have collected the sum of N156,955.20k as import duty on a Louis Vuitton laptop bag found in the personal baggage of a customer. Quoting copiously from the customs and excise duty act, the Judge awarded the sum of N5m against customs, and asked them to refund the import duty paid by the customer.


The joy for me here is that someone decided to go to court to challenge what apparently was a clear case of abuse of power, likely fuelled by crass ignorance by customs. I am very sure that many Nigerians would have had similar experiences, paid the money or forfeited the item and just moved on to avoid “trouble”.

That is the sort of defeatist mentality we mostly exhibit each time our fundamental rights are grossly violated.

One is forced to ask, is it that customs weren’t aware of their own laws? On what basis did they decide to extort Nigerians whose only crime was that they decided to shop for items abroad? How many other Nigerians have had similar experiences and didn’t talk?

In a similar case, earlier in the year, a lady went to a Chinese restaurant in Lagos and was told that she couldn’t sit down to eat except she does a take away. She sort to know why, and was told by a fellow Nigerian working in the restaurant that it was the company policy.

A policy to exclude Nigerians from eating in a restaurant in their own country? Not satisfied, the lady requested to see the manager and she was bluntly told by the Chinese man that eat-in was only for Chinese and white nationals, while Nigerians were only allowed to order for take away. Infuriated by this grand policy of segregation in Lagos of all places, the lady recorded a video of the incident and it went viral.



The Lagos state government acted swiftly and sealed off the restaurant for further investigations. Do you know how many Nigerians might have also suffered similar humiliation and decided to just order and go to avoid “trouble”?

It took one responsible citizen to act properly to change what was apparently wrong. Curiously, the restaurant has been operating for years. We can’t sit down, fold our hands and expect this country to change without doing anything.

As a citizen, if you haven’t played your role, you have no right to demand performance from government. A lot of us are extremely docile to the point that if we are asked by a government agency to pay tax for breathing in air, we will pay just to avoid “trouble”



The office of the citizen is the most important office in a democracy. If citizens refuse to play their own roles, then they should stop complaining about government.

We must resist what we don’t like so as to force a change. If Rosa Parks hadn’t refused to give up her seat years ago, probably the segregation laws in the US would have lasted much longer.

I have narrated these two incidents today to show that unless and until we demand for the country of our dreams and each of us is ready to do something about it, we will continue to live in these degrading conditions. If you can talk, talk. If you can write, write. If you can sue, sue.


If you can protest, protest. Whatever you can, just do it! What is unacceptable is extreme docility.

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