The #Narcissism of #Bullies ..’ – #In14Ways #Aremuorin

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Wish I knew this at ten when I was bullied and beat senslessly, for being unique, at home, and at school ..’

Ever been bullied as a child or at school? Even as an adult? Well here is an insight.

Malignant narcissistic sociopaths will demand apology, or forgiveness, from it’s victim(s) when it’s lost the power to manipulate, abuse, control, harrass, bully or inflict pain; any further.

It’s a last resort, to absolve from any responsibility and guilt, to project blame: to feel better. Very mature indeed ..’

Unfortunately, for them, forgiveness is a gift. Not theirs to demand, or withhold; arbitrarily, like they once did before. It belong’s to the victim.

Wish I knew this at ten when I was bullied, and beat senslessly for being unique, at home, and at school. So go heal yourself and let go in your own time. No pressure from any bully allowed. Love, light and power to you.

Here is a story of a black young girl bullied for her hair and how she dealt with it. This was profiled on the Kelly Clarkson Show.

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Self #hate ..’ – #In14Ways #SpreadLove #Aremuorin

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Don’t dignify yourself with trash. Below the barrel, common low IQ thugs. Nonentities slinging mud with #selfhate ..’ – #In14Ways

It’s clearer to me now that when niggers say they don’t know me they are projecting their ignorance with self hate. How pitiful and sad.

To represent my authentic self; how so glad. I’m sure there will be no street-cred, suicide, committed tonight.

It’s another day at the office of make believe; headquarters at – status-quo. I can see now. You are the man.

God bless you. I can’t help but laugh. But kindness is a gift. It rewards like Karma.

#StayPoised #IfYouNeedMe

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Spread love not xenophobia

Screen shot of how the blog post came out on Google 👉🏿🙄
I was asked why BBC is not reporting extensively on the SA vs Nigeria Xenophobia crisis. Isn’t it obvious? Racism is big business.
I just covered it on my blog and it was suppressed as they (Powers that be) always do when the narrative does not appeal to the status quo agenda of whitesupremacy beneficiaries.
My blog is not add supported. It’s free. I don’t make money from my blogs. It’s a pure Labour of LOVE and catharsism.
Here is the receipt. The post had videos and real dialogues on the crisis by real people but wordpress limited its visibility so it will be ignored or overlooked.

As can you can see it says – READ MORE OF THIS POST.

Only the foot note is available in the post. 😐🙄👇🏿

This is a screen shot of how this blog post came out on Google 🙄

Original post:

https://aremuorin.me/2019/09/07/spread-love-not-xenophobia/

Update – 8 Sept 2019, 16:49

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-49593030

BBC News – South Africa: How common are xenophobic attacks?
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-47800718

BBC News – Letter from Africa: Nigerian anger over South African xenophobia
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-49432558

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What you dont #understand ..’ – #In14Ways #WhiteJesus #Aremuorin

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When you’ve got #sh*t to do and your #hater is not one of #them ..’ – Aremuorin

With #God, you can #never lose. With lucifer, you lose #lose ..’ God is love.

Any black person suppressing another black person is sick in the head. Such individual needs psychiatric evaluation.

When love opens it’s doors and grace follows, it becomes enchanted by it. Only those who pursue it first, diligently, fervently; and keep it that way – inherit the kingdom!

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What you don’t understand is that you are been manipulated with your own own history.

You are living in oil. You are living in water. You are living in abundance. Yet, you are crying out of poverty?

(Mental) – Slavery is a choice #indeed; but of course, the gate keepers of the author of that school of thought have had him locked up, behind the doors of mockery, dumb-downess; in the pursuits of monetized entertainment, for profits to troubleshoot White Jesus’s empire ..’

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So the low vibrating hypocrites & gullible fools are too busy self hating with xenophobia and internal anarchy; ochestratred by their enemies for rationed tokens, and crusts of bread that won’t last but to keep them divided, arguing, self-sabotaging & distracted by controlled oppositions & MK Ulta plants selling their own out to the newest sophisticated slavemaster or the highest bidder.

Nice ..’ – #In14Ways

A new morning. A new dawn is available. Help us oh Lord to be strong. Desire our hearts more to desire you ..’ #MercyfulGrace

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Here is what Guardian had to say on living in white spaces.

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SpeakOut: #Black Male #Sex #Abuse ..’ #In14Ways

I can relate to this. There were some family members of mine who were child molestors.

Failing Systems: When white male voices dominate: “Black Male Sex Abuse” goes on, un checked; cuz of lack of #representation ..’ – #Speakout

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#SexAbuse
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Here is what Guardian had to say on living in white spaces.

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Aggressive White Lies: #Whitesupremacy #Antics ..’ – #In14Ways #Aremuorin

The Guardian – wrote indeptly, on #gaslighting & 500 years of incredulous ‘White Privileges‘ as the reason #why blacks are stereotyped #aggressive. That’s the personification of #aggression ..’ – Aremuorin

When #blackpeople have to sit up #passionately and fight for their own #rights, on an even playing field, racist #whitesupremacists are still unable to compete fairly. They result to cheating.

It’s Ironic. If #WhiteJesus is not aggression I don’t know what is. Lynching, pillaging, collonisation, appropriation of black culture, dropping bombs and plundering of continents.

White Supremacists and their agents, use nuances of black culture by advantage to further whitesupremacy antics, by giving out tokens of white privileges, but when the narrative does not suite their need, they label black people aggressive. What a joke. Now, it lands!

Dont mess with racial truths. They plague like a virus ..’

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Here is what Guardian had to say on living in white spaces.

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Aremuorin Live and Guests ..’ – #In14Ways #MercyfulGrace #Aremuorin

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Working with #BFacePhotos ..’ – #In14Ways #Aremuorin

Straight from Panache Award’s at the Marriott in London; performing my self penned song, ‘Never Around’, to a glittering live audience of stars, movers and shakers ..’

Pictures can capture innumerable words unsaid. B Face is an artiste I can’t wait to work with again.

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Life is for living. Stop worrying about others view of your life. That’s a prison time I refuse to do anymore.

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When you are humble, gracious, patient and kind; the antagonists, jealous spirits & haters, don’t recall. Done with them!

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Time is money. Money you can remake unlike #time. So, invest it wisely ..’

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Now I need to pay the gym a visit to work this weight off my #mind ..’ – #In14Ways

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Check out @BFacePhotos on instagram for your classic portraits and occasional events ..’

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#Light #Love #Power

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Why is it “#Black extremists”, and “Islamic #extremists”? – #In14ways

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Why is it “#Black extremists”, and “Islamic #extremists”? – #In14ways

But these other groups get called “#WhiteSupremacist”, #KKK, alt right, etc. Why is everyone else considered extreme, while certain groups are considered “supreme”?

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Seriously want to know; because vocabulary has everything to do with #propaganda.

We need to start addressing the weight of words, and the role it plays on society’s thinking ..’

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#MercyfulGrace
#Light #Love #Power
#Aremuorin #Racism

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#Rise: #BAME. We Know – #MercyfulGrace #In14ways

Sleepy eyes rosie days; finite price, rise into the dream land where heavy burdens are laid to rest, with new dawn praise, awaiting a sunrise after the #moon ..’ – Aremuorin

Single stories about gender fluidity in the black community especially.

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I’ve had religious and academic views which aren’t based on real case studies or documented evidence.

It may be a hard one to prove; however, there is enough evidence to gather to make inferences that we don’t know as much as we think we do when it comes to human orientation and their behaviour over time.

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I heard a testimony yesterday; similar to my early childhood. We never met before and are not even off the same race.

We grew up in different parts of the world, uninfluenced by social conditions often antagonists like to crucify sexual orientation on.

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Human behaviour is more complex and diverse. Even twins are not the same. They are just similar.

Just like Africans used to kill twins; in #Nigeria, cuz they thought they were evil and how some still ask Mary mother of White Jesus to pray for them.

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Nigeria is one of the most hypocritical countries in the world on human rights where they criminalize the consenting; adult, lgbtq+; but legally marry off a 9yr old girl, without her consent.

Reminds me of my horror stories of that country as a child.

We need to be critical of what we think we know and are taught as the norm in our #communities ..’ – #In14ways

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Conclusion:

I’m not an old fashioned African man. I’d like to think of myself as the epitomy of a modern African man. Too woke for that ..’

If Prince could wear eyeliner and high heals, James Brown (The God Father of Soul) could perm his hair and Terrence Trent D’arby could braid his hair; then, I think I will be just fine, as an artiste and a black man.

That’s why I don’t like labels and if anyone should; it’s not your place, or my place to do that. Let the subject do it in their own good time.

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Sometimes, people twist my narratives to suite their ignorances. So I walk away. Two wrongs won’t make it right ..’

I’m gonna say it again louder & prouder. Straight men aren’t homophobes. Homophobes are closeted conflicted gays self-projecting from self hate.

Jesus’s best friend was a whore. Process that ..’

Jesus is my truest best friend. I always knew. I just never said it out loud. Now. I can’t wait to tell the whole world ..’

I’m a Tom- Girl and I, own it.

I’ll could probably make millions as a professional female impersonator: (Little Britain, Rupaul etc) inspiring women,

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all over the world, who have lost their confidence, and be their superhero 💖. Well, a mother; or mother figure is irreplaceable but I hope you get what I mean in an entertainment sense.

Especially for other shut down Tom-Girls irregardless of their ethnicity or belief systems, including the Lgbtqi+ community; and victims, or survivors of ignorance.

Now, that’s what ‘Love Would Do’. Not, judge, or hate; because we don’t understand and never try!

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#Lght #Love #Power
#Aremuorin #LoveIsLove

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